Sites like cam4 allow the average person to show off and expose themselves to potentially thousands of people. That’s all good and well…but what if you want hundreds of thousands? Well, Big Brother of course. Now I’m no big brother fan, but I can appreciate this 
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I don’t usually post promo videos but I thought this scene was hot. I’m also usually not a big fan of age gaps between guys but, since these guys are both young, I didn’t mind as much…in fact I thought it was very hot. It’s nice to watch scenes where the guys enjoy eachother as opposed to a lot of the stuff we get lately where you can clearly see it’s just a job at the end of the day. Although this is only a sampler, it gives a good idea of the whole video and I give it a 7 out of 10. Hope you enjoy!
For those of you who like Fleshlight’s or sex toys for men in general, I’m sure you will love this. This guy loves to moan as he slowly fucks his toy…watch as he ever so slowly releases globs of precum before he actually gives in to the orgasm…I love this ; ) …Enjoy!
This one I thought was quite hot in that the two friends supposedly do not want to pleasure eachother because they are straight (curious), so they get this guy to assist them. Keep a lookout for the one guy cumming twice (right in the beginning and at the very end)… Must be a rush…Enjoy!
Due to one of my readers commenting on the Scenic or Not post I put up a few days back I thought I’d rather put his response in as a new post. I think he makes some valid points…
“A homosexual person is someone who is attracted to the same sex psychologically, emotionally, and of course, physically and while homosexuality is being increasingly recognized as an alternative and acceptable lifestyle, there are countries that still exist that do not recognize homosexuals as human beings. For example, in Africa, the penalties for homosexuality range from being fined to several years in prison. In Muslim countries, homosexuals have been sentenced to life in prison or even death!
The stonewall riots that happened in New York City in June 1969 marked the most significant turning point for what we now know as the gay, lesbian, bisexuality, and transgendered (GLBT) community. These spontaneous riots were born out of a policeraid of the Stonewall Inn brought on by social ignorance and legal oppression of homosexual people. Before the riot, homosexuals were a secret legion of people that were known of but their existence was denied, laughed at, or despised. This was possible due to the fact that they were socially invisible. Homosexuals had no physical or cultural markings, no language or dialect from which to distinguish one another. Although this act of social rebellion was fueled by passion, anger, and violence, this writer believes that it was just and necessary; everything that the GLBT community needed, to make their voice heard, to make the world acknowledge their existence and to promote, an arguably still-overdue equality among the respective contemporary societies. These riots sparked the creation of organizations that aimed to protect the rights of homosexuals like the Gay Liberation Front and the Gay Activists Alliance. Homosexuals today should feel a great sense of gratitude for the freedoms that they are able to enjoy, built upon by the countless individuals who fought the obstacles of oppression, suppression, ignorance, and discrimination. While “Gay Pride” events around the world were an indirect result of these riots and seemingly show a sense of appreciation and dedication to fighting for homosexuality equality, have we gone too far? Have we lost sight of what we are fighting for and what our fellow counterparts from 1969 had fought for?
Assimilation into any discourse is crucial for our development as individuals and groups. For years, homosexuals have been fighting for the right to “belong” and the right to be considered equals with their heterosexual counterparts. While the revolt against oppression, suppression, and discrimination had initially allowed homosexuals to stand up for who they were and to fight for a deserved place in society, the sense of overcompensation that contemporary homosexuals exhibit, ironically, segregates us further from society. The Gay Pride Parade is an international event and happens during different times of the year in many cities; in Vancouver, it happens at the end of August. It takes an incredible amount of time and effort to put on something of this caliber and requires a lot of volunteers. Floats of all sorts are created and paraded down Pacific St. where thousands of people gather to watch. From “Dykes on Bikes,” to barely clothed men showing off their Speedos, the gay pride parade seemingly has all the ingredients required to make a happy pride. However, beneath the swarms of people, floats and fun, lurks a subtle hint of insecurity. What kind of message are we trying to send non-homosexuals? We try so hard to get them to understand who we are and how we are not as different from them as they think, yet, when given the chance, we succeed to confuse and mock the very foundation on which our freedom and relative acceptance was built upon. Many people associate being gay with sex. Everybody has sex and we are each entitled to our own likes and dislikes about sex and all that encompass it. Some people like bondage, some like feet, others leather, and the list goes on and on. This is not exclusive to just homosexuals yet, it is portrayed that being gay means you have some type of sexual deviancy. Granted that having sex with members of the same gender does not represent the whole population, and by default, is in fact, “deviancy,” sex should only be a part of who we are and should not identify who we are.
There are masculine homosexuals as there are feminine heterosexuals. Yet, what people see and may perceive as homosexuality is fetishes, men in skimpy clothing, public nudity, and social rebellion as portrayed in the pride parade year after year. That is not what being gay is and this gives others a false impression of what it truly means to be a homosexual. The “pride parade” as they call it, should therefore be accordingly renamed, the “gay culture parade.” It shows small parts of who we are and if misunderstood, will reinforce stereotypes that all gay men are camp, like to wear drag, and enjoy leather, bondage, feet, and other fetishes that have been attributed to gay men.
The gay pride parade is there to celebrate the advancement of homosexuality as an accepted lifestyle and to raise awareness that homosexuals exist and it is perfectly natural. The fact is, a large proportion of people marching in those parades do not represent the interests of gays overall. A protest against homophobia in the workplace is arguably legitimate, but what is the point of having a gay pride parade in contemporary society? To prove that we’re gay and proud of it? Maybe. But is it really something to be proud of? Are you proud of your hair color? Eye color? Skin color? We are gay and that is our identity; there is little reason to be proud of something that you cannot directly control. That’s like saying we should have a parade tomorrow because we are proud of being white. You were born white, and you’re proud of it, why not tell the world how happy you are to be white? Because it’s inappropriate, just like having a parade dedicated to what we perceive as the meaning of gay pride, is inappropriate. In Canada, you are more than welcome, and by all means, to be proud and celebrate your culture because we are a cultural mosaic. To celebrate that you are proud of being gay is nothing noteworthy as I can also celebrate having brown eyes; both innate characteristics. Being gay is not an achievement. Conversely, celebrating the equalities we have gained is a noteworthy cause for a gay culture parade and should, appropriately, be celebrated. Perhaps a more subtle and insidious parasite lives among us and the idea of inclusivity with exclusivity eludes many individuals. Movies portray fraternity houses on university campuses as an exclusive club through which one must be initiated by public humiliation and exemplification of relative self-worth. In real life, the rules that govern such practices are less apparent to varying degrees, depending on the locale and nature of the individuals that oversee these initiations. A safe assumption to make is that such hazing practices rarely exist and it is easier to become members of these fraternities. However, not just anybody can be a member; potential applicants still have to prove how the fraternity would benefit from them being included and what they have to offer to better the reputation of said fraternity. Once a member, the guilty pleasure of passing judgment upon future applicants becomes inherently acceptable, and pride-worthy. It is easier to place oneself above others because this is what you went through to get here and it is appropriate that you subject others to the experience you had, whether it may fall in the negative-positive spectrum. This concept can be directly applied to homosexual culture and the dynamic of the power struggle that exists between homo- and heterosexuals.
Having been ridiculed and discriminated against in our early days for being gay, now that we are free and comfortable to act as gay as we see fit, we hypocritically treat nonmembers with the scowl and shame that they seemingly deserve. We are proud to finally be included, but revel in the idea that we also proud that it is exclusive to us homosexuals and resentment and loathing for those that have hurt us, seem more justified. We cannot allow ourselves to use the acceptance and relative equality we have worked so hard to achieve fuel segregation, ignorance, and hypocrisy. We can only hope to change others’ minds through logic, reason, and example. In the writer’s opinion, the most effective way to combat homophobia is to live according to who you are with no regrets or shame; make no apologies for your character, if you so choose. Easier said than done, but entertain this small example: nobody in your place of employment know that you’re gay and you don’t have any immediate plans to “come out of the closet” as you’ve garnered the respect and camaraderie of your co-workers and superiors through hard work and dedication, mutual respect, etc. So why chose to “come out?” Because not “coming out” is a tacit admission of your guilt and shame as a homosexual. Granted that your “staying in the closet” will save you from the potential ridicule, discrimination, and loss of respect that may encompass the aftermath of your truth, the potential of working in a place where you don’t have to hide who you are and receiving even more respect from said co-workers and/or superiors, is an equally appealing outcome. This writer understands the delicacies of such actions, but the confidence, professionalism, and skill that you exude will indirectly allow for a change in one’s misconceptions about homosexuals much more effectively than if you were to celebrate your homosexuality in a pride parade.
Let who you are dominate your life, not a portion of what you are.”
Nicely said!
I’ve been thinking lately of the significance of what it’s like to be a gay but at the same time dislike most things attributed to being gay (this person is me if you hadn’t clicked yet). Before you read on, I should probably warn you that I might offend a few people but I think I’ve reach a point now where I feel I’m secure enough in my own way of life to be completely honest about the way I feel about being a gay man today.
Firstly, as I have alluded to, I don’t agree with a lot of the ways in which a lot of gay guys live their lives. Yes, they are free to live their lives as they please and I will never try and convince anyone to change anything about themselves, but that doesn’t mean I should agree with the choice. Over the years as I have become more comfortable about my sexuality, I have noticed certain trends in the gay way of life…the short-lived relationships, the drive for new sources of sex and fun / NSA / etc., the dishonesty and the double lives. I’ve experienced this first hand sadly but I have learned from it. Today, I completely avoid the “scene” , a word which incidentally carries no real significance for me other than denoting (in my opinion) the vapid lifestyle choice of a large majority of gay men. So yes…these are some harsh statements and many will disagree with me, but I’m sure many of you can also relate to certain aspects of it.
The thing that over the years has truly kept nagging at me is the concept of the “scene”. For me, being a gay man, the scene is something I avoid (and I go to great lengths to do so). I live in Cape Town, also once referred to as the pink capital of the world and a place with a huge gay imprint. One cannot get into certain parts of town without avoiding the pink strip. For me, more importantly, the scene represents an artificial conformance to a stereotype that has been constructed from preconceived notions of sheer bias. The image of what it is to be a gay man in today’s world has been constructed over decades into a template of how to live ones life as a gay man. To me, this is pretty sad and I really wish the community would stop the pride parades, the fake and somewhat disturbing overly queeny voices and the fashion statements and just accept that being gay does not have to dictate the way one lives ones life. As I have lived in this city my whole life, I’ve noticed how things have gotten progressively worse in terms of this conformance to norms which have been imposed on us by the media. Gay men, given the stereotype of being cheats and liars have conformed to this image and rebel against all who oppose them or disagree with their lifestyle by hosting large pride marches and events to promote their lifestyle. I’m no expert in social conditioning but it’s clearly noticeable and it’s a trend that gets worse and dare I say louder every year.
My life is rather uninteresting by comparison. I’m a homely guy and I live my life in a very low key way which a lot of people might also disagree with too (and that’s fine). I try to not let my sexuality define me and I try my best to see the benefits in the way other people live their lives. My choice of lifestyle is quite different from the fun and vibrant scene life as I have been led to believe, and is also not without its downsides. For example, I don’t keep many friends these days mostly because my quiet lifestyle is not easy to handle for people constantly on the lookout for fun and nights out – but it was my choice and I stick by it. The point I am trying to make is that as someone said to me the other day, there is a distinct difference in being a gay man and being a man that happens to be gay. Personally, I don’t want to shout that I am gay from the rooftops – I don’t think it achieves anything tangible. I know deep down that I am proud of who I am and that my choices in life are they best ones for me. I just have to wonder what people would think if a “straight pride parade” had to hit every major city in the world…I do believe it would be considered odd, but I could be wrong.
I think its time to realise that being gay is a normal thing in today’s society and something that should no longer have to be broadcast to everyone around. Let’s embrace who we are and live by our choices without having to prove ourselves to the world and everyone around us. I just hope I didn’t offend too many people and that my message was more positive than critical.
There seems to be quite a lot of traffic to this site with regards to selfsuckers, so I thought I’d make you guys happy and post another really hot selfsuck video. Sorry I haven’t posted in a while, life sometimes gets in the way 
. Anyway…this guy has a true gift for selfing as you can rightly see from the video. I think the thing that makes this video so hot for me personally is the combination of him sucking himself, cumming in his own mouth and then finally watching his dick go flacid! WOW!! Enjoy
I’m not a huge fan of shower scenes and not because I don’t like them, simply because it’s not something that turns me on. However, a guy that manages to answer the call of mother nature while being rock solidly stiff and then cum (while he just so happens to be glistening and wet all over) is a winner in my books. I hope you guys enjoy this one!
I thought it was time to post something a bit more substantial, so today’s post will be about guys that like to show off in public. Now I’ve already spoken about the guys that parade their wares on sites like cam4 but there is another class of guy…the one that does it in reality. Although rare, there are some pics on the net that showcase guys revealing all in public (both knowingly and otherwise). For me personally, I find the unknowing revelations much hotter than those who set out to just take a cock out in public. I suppose it has to do with the setting, a guy that does not know he is “hanging out” as such is most likely surrounded by more people, right? Perhaps…so I started to think about the psychology of it all and did some reading.
Public nudity is broken into two camps, sexual and non-sexual and both usually do not include showing off the “low hangers”. For those that do, nudist camps will have to suffice, and as one would imagine some people take this too far and end up in court over indecent exposure…but that’s legal stuff that I won’t go into. Psychologists have a more technical term for all this and this is known as “exhibitionism”, a term most people know. The thing that struck me was that exhibitionism is considered a disorder in the context of it affecting the exhibitionists daily lives. Interestingly, the majority of exhibitionists have no intention to engage with his viewers beyond getting them aroused…which explains rather nicely the question I had in my previous post about guys that don’t like to engage with their audiences on cam sites, and more shockingly (for me anyway), more than half of them are married! Research also indicates that exhibitionists see their actions as more of a lifestyle than a thrill so to them, it’s just part of the day, nothing more than a daily jerkoff session would be to me and you (if you aren’t an exhibitionist of course)
Finally, studies have shown that emotional abuse in childhood and family dysfunction can both be attributed to exhibitionism. Well, I’m no docter or psychologist and I realise that for some people this is a serious condition but when looking at most pictures on the net, I cannot help but get the idea it’s just a bit of fun for the most part, perhaps the result of a dare or an act of nudity to make a statement (rallies, protests etc). Either way, enjoy the pics I have posted and I hope this was some food for thought
This Sunday night from 7-8PM EST, CockyBoys exclusive Gabriel Clark will be performing in his FIRST EVER official cam show for CockyBoys members only. Members can ask Gabriel anything they want, from the silly to the serious to the sexy…and as anyone who has seen Gabriel in action knows, he’ll be sure to deliver a balls-draining performance. I thought I’d let you guys know as he sure is fun to watch and live promises to be even more hot! I’ve added some pics for those that don’t know him
